November 1, 2021

I love my wife but our sex drought has driven me to cheat with a kinky teacher

I’m having kinky sex with a colleague . . . and she is about the tenth woman I’ve made love to outside my marriage.

I love my wife and kids but can’t do without regular action.

My wife is friendly, kind, and caring. We never have a serious argument about anything except sex. She is 31 and I am 33.

Our boys are aged seven and three. We never fight about it in front of them. But after our first son was born, things really took a nosedive.

I’m always pushing my wife for a romp but we never get round to it more than a couple of times a month. When we do, it’s dull.

There was a total drought after our older son was born and I cracked after six months.

I’m a teacher and was sent on a team leaders’ coaching course. There was a really attractive woman there from another school and we homed in on one another.

On the second day, we went for a drink and ended up having a passionate snog. Then we met one evening at her place and had sex. It was brilliant.

That affair lasted six months and there have been many since. I usually tell my wife I’m staying late at school, doing the marking.

But lately, I’ve been worried, as she’s been talking about us putting trackers on our phones for safety.

At the moment I am seeing a member of staff at my school. I usually try to avoid anyone too close but she is a supply teacher so should be leaving at Christmas.

She is 27, really wild, and up for trying almost anything in bed. It’s the kinkiest I’ve ever had.

I used to feel guilty about cheating but I’ve tried many times to get my wife to see a therapist. She never accepts there is anything wrong.

I don’t want a divorce because of the kids, so I feel I have no choice but to cheat. It’s frustrating.

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I OFTEN hear from women whose partners don’t “get” foreplay and make love like a roll-on, roll-off ferry.

If a guy is good in other ways, a sexual makeover may help.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your boys will be picking up on the emotional undertow at home. They won’t yet know what is wrong but it will almost certainly affect them and their relationships in the years to come.

I do understand how frustrated you feel, in both senses. Maybe your wife won’t see a sex therapist because she feels you are labeling her as the one with a problem – which you are – when at least some of this problem could be about how you make love to her.

Make a fresh start by booking to see a sex therapist and go alone if your wife still refuses to come with you.

I am sure you will at least get some new insight and I think she will join you if you take the initiative. You can find a sexual and relationship therapist at cosrt.org.uk.

And put a stop to that affair with your colleague. It could wreck your career as well as your marriage.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Source: hotlifestyletale.com

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